Gutpunching give/take/trade

Calisthenics workout scene for me. A very wholesome little community where we would test each others' bodies for fun, with punches, usually. It was so oddly satisfying and even arousing in a special way (I'm an ace, so it was quite something to navigate!).

I think I was always attracted to images of shirtless men with abs, punching scenes in TV/movies (particularly when the guy's arms are held back), etc., but the first time I acknowledged to myself that I was turned-on by watching a guy being punched was a martial arts demonstration at camp. I between 5th and 6th grade (so I think about 11) and I went to overnight camp for the first time.

Two brothers at the camp were serious martial arts students. They were Asian–if memory serves they were Korean-American–and they did a sparring demonstration for the assembled campers. One of the boys was several years older (a counsellor or CIT) so maybe 16-18 and the younger brother was maybe 14-15. The older boy had filled-out so he was really built like a man with broad shoulders and full pecs, etc. The younger was skinnier, but more ripped and wiry with completely visible six-pack abs.

They did not have gi's with them at camp so they sparred in sweatpants, bare feet, bare fists, no shirt. I don't know what style it was (maybe TKD or Kyokushin as they hit and kicked pretty hard, although to the body only with no head kicks/hits). The older brother was bigger and more experienced and dominated the younger. At one point he did a roundhouse kick right into the younger kid's six pack. We all heard the thud of the kick landing and could sense how hard it was. The older brother was very apologetic, but the younger brother fell to his knees and was having trouble catching his breath.

Watching the boy there, on his knees, grasping his gut in pain, seeing his lats tighten on his ribs, watching him struggle back to his feet with red abs.... I had to hide the boner I got right then. It was the first time I knew that this is what turned me on. Amazing that decades later I can still visualize it so vividly.

When I was a kid my friend who was quite a bit bigger than me decided to elbow me right in the stomach when i was not ready and totally wrecked me. I was basically folded over the rest of the night. As years went by I looked back on that and it became a fetish for me.

Io non credo nelle sciocchezze di Freud, nonostante l'ho studiato. Mi piace colpire lo stomaco dei maschi che hanno gli addominali scolpiti, ma la teoria che dice quello psicoanalista è errata.

Hi, boyz, mates of our common fetish. It's great to have the chance of talking and sharing our perception about where does this fetish (sexual fetish) come from.

In my case, it was revealed to me when I was 13 yo, during a dream where I was punching the stomach of a handsome friend of mine with a georgeous six pack, which made me cum and wake me up. It was the first time I cumed and I thought there was something wrong, very wrong, in myself. Naturely, with the time passing I had the chance to understand I was gay (though I did not like things like dicks or assholes) and I started a long "carreer" to get to know how to be gay in a gay world where I was like an extraterrestrian. It was quite complicated, but I was fortunate to consolidate three sequencial couples (along decades) where my mates where/are keen to enjoy gutpunching and its varieties with me, and even with others.

I always had the need to go out of this double closet (being gay and having this strict fetish of gutpunching). This "going out" never ends, and I'm always understanding new aspects of it, about who I am, about which are the differences and commom points with the rest of the world and about how to build bridges with the others (yet distances and differences are still there, they exist: sapiens diversity?).

AJust a couple of days ago, I had the chance to deeplle talk with a friend of mine who is a gay and very open minded psychoanalyst, and he explained to me the Freudian theory about fetishes, with a little bit of "updating". He said that the fact of erotisize the stomach, gut, abs, navel –or whatever– could be related to a scene we lived when we were very young (before 4-6 yo), when we saw the dick of our father (remember we like men) and, because we felt somehow schoked to see it, our minds fixed the image of what we had seen immediately before that, i.e. our father's gut, stomach, abs, navel –whatever–. It's just a general theory, but it could explain, at least, some personal cases or experiences.

Mates, I really believe that we will probably never know, with scientific precission, where our own fetishes came from. Nevertheless, we are able to konw and remember how and when it started to be revealed to ourselves. And for sure -mainly thanks to the internet- we have the chance to find "people like us" to share and enjoy gutpuching toghether, whatever it is the way we like it.

One last thing. I was always "translating" what was the meaning and the perception of sexuality and erotic love from normative heterosexual and gay world, into my internal "language" of gutpunching. Besides, I have always been envolved in the fights for LGTBI rights. I think that theese experiences helped me to understand that I (in fact, all of us) may try to visibilize our sexual diversity. I belive that it is important to build a bridge to the society, which requires both: 1) that that we take an open behavior to enjoy and show our love to gutpunching, and 2) that the society start to understand our diversities. Of course, everubody has to respect it's own perception of "intimacy". Great job to do.

Thank you for reading this. I hope there will be some answers to it.

Best wishes and great gutpunching for everybody.

Pablo

I can relate to your post. And while I identify as gay, I have NO interest in dicks and asses. What excites me most about a guy is his overall body – especially his torso/stomach area, which I like to punch. I've had this gutpunching desire for as long as I can remember. I sometimes even wonder if I was born with it because it goes back so far. I guess for people like you and I and others, we are uncommon in the gay world, where dicks and asses seem to be the focus. Not surprisingly, I've never been in a relationship with a guy where I could fulfill my punching desire – partly because I was embarrassed by my unusual fetish, and partly it's been difficult to find guys who are into it. It wasn't until the internet came around in the mid-90s that I discovered that I wasn't alone in my gutpunching fetish. Needless to say, I was happy to learn this and felt a bit relieved that I wasn't the only one in the world with this interest.

I sometimes wish that my sexual interests were more mainstream (dicks/asses), because it would be a lot easier to find people to engage in it with me.

Stomach punching makes me hard for as long as I care to remember.

Exactly like me

when I was growing up lived next door to this filipino girl we were good friends liked to play wrestle, one day she slammed a punch into my gut felt both pain and pleasure that was the beginning of my fantasy for gut punching

Watching fights, then having an impulse to punch, then it became self-directed. I no longer want to punch, but have an absolute lust for receiving gut punishment.

were the fights on television? or were you present??? What do you like the most at the moment to see it?

They started out on TV and movies, but around puberty, I was both watching and getting into a lot of scraps.

me watching fight movies 2 shirtless men punching his stomach and as a child seeing my friends navels

Hell yeh bro