Some of us are endlessly fascinated by holds that apply a pressure and/or pain combination .... usually both together. Like others, don't know where this fascination came from, but enjoy indulging when the opportunity comes around. When I'm the receiver of a great scissor hold, I may tap and beg for release if the intensity is great, but I quickly volunteer to be put right back in the hold again! When I am the applier of an excellent scissor hold, I take great pleasure from applying pressure that makes my buddy suffer ... even when my legs are burning from working at it, the fascination of this situation drives me to continue. I agree with Chris about it not being necessary to cum when working with scissor holds. Sure I get an easy hard on. But the real satisfaction comes from just having worked on the holds for a period of time. One other thing for me is that often I find holds are not maintained for a long enough time ... many guys like to switch holds after a few minutes, but my fascination for scissors keeps my attention for hours.
Always come back for more <grin>.
Thumbs Up Skweezhard.
Yes, I remember your "great pleasure" when you applied it to me.
It was awesome ! Am very grateful for that/those scissor sessions.
My first time feeling pressure on my head and enjoying that ringing feeling was not with a scissor. My older sister took me and my younger brother to the park in Brooklyn NY. I was about 6 I guess. The park was great, it had a giant concrete turtle I enjoyed climbing and pretending to ride. There was also a concrete tube that served as a good hiding place, or to keep dry in the rain. Sometimes some men where at the park. They were always thirsty and drinking stuff hidden in brown paper bags. My sister would leave us in the park to play alone. A few times I chatted with the old men. One of them was really cool and super friendly. He was really old probably 30 or 40 with grizzly hair on his face. It intrigued me so I asked if I could touch his face. It was rough and soft. He asked me if I wanted to fly. I told him that's impossible, only the pigeons fly. He then placed his huge hands on either side of my head, pressed his hands really hard, and then he stood-up off the bench thereby lifting me off the ground. The pressure combined with the lift did indeed feel like I was flying. I was a bit scared, and yes there was some ringing, but it was so exciting as he dangled me 3 feet off the ground while starring right at me. It was amazing. Then his drinking buddy wanted to do it too. He had even bigger hands and was taller. Boy what a ride. My little brother watched, he seemed scared, I told him not to be. This happened on more than once during our visits to the park with the same men. It was fun. A month or so later when my sister dropped us off at this park again to play with the giant concrete turtle I sought out these old men but they where not there. But I never forgot them since they gave me the gift of flight and that ringing in my head feeling.
Thanks NavelForce.
Good idea, never thought
of that, being a viable alternative
to marijuana. Practical adult application
is/are a variety of headscissors and chokes.
Yes they certainly are a great alternative /
replacement to pot if you're on the receiving
end of these holds. I don't know what would equate
the sensation of being on giving /providing end
of these wrestling holds.
I'm not really sure exactly what would equate the sensation either, but it definitely sounds like a high. I know one thing, though: You're a talented writer. :) That story really grabbed the emotions. I almost had a tear in my eye at the end. 👍
I had someone ask me why I like it in response to a craigslist ad. Here's my reply (this is pretty personal and an adult topic, reader discretion is advised):
That's a tough question because there isn't a large enough group of people into it so I don't think there is an understanding of it in society as there is for many other kinks.
The appeal can be similar to most BDSM activities and it covers all aspects of the acronym. Is it bondage? Clearly because you are being physically restrained. There is a dominance aspect as well, you are relinquishing control to someone else to deliver suffering. Can it be breath play? Yes, but it doesn't have to be. Do I get off like actually cum from it? Rarely unless someone is jerking me off too. I have played for over 2 hours before without ever cumming and I tend to look back on it more fondly than when I've played with someone intent on making me cum. Cumming is nice, I hear most people like it, but it isn't why I'm into it.
I can't say exactly when I got into this or how, it happened gradually. It started, I think, in Jr. High maybe High School. I used visit scissor fetish sites which no longer exist and a lot of my sexuality was formed looking at old photos from PWP, BG Enterprises, BG East, Lets Wrestle, NHB-Battle, Chris Geary's site, etc. Half the time the guys acted like they were in pain, other times like they were on the verge of orgasm. I started using, tape, rope, wood, elastic bands, anything I could find to simulate what those guys were feeling. Years later I started wrestling and doing it to others for submissions but never to torture them and never on the receiving end. I continued to get more sophisticated in how I squeezed myself, never not enjoying the experience.
I've only 3 times had someone take it to any kind of real intensity for any amount of time. Nothing in life is like it is in your head. Bondage, flogging, needle play, breath control, getting choked out, getting kicked in the head, nothing, and this isn't either. It can be intense or sensual, it can include breath play, or not. It can push your limits for pain or be mostly painless. The only thing I've found I don't like is pressure right on the solar plexus but everything else I've enjoyed regardless of pain or fear. I like the pain, I like the pressure, I like the panic when you can't breathe, I like when my legs go numb or I get swimmy in the head. One time I used 2 bp cuffs chained together around my stomach and pumped them up to about 220mmhg and then used a gi belt to choke myself most of the way out and the feeling coming back came in waves as did my awareness of the pressure and it was the single most amazing feeling of my life. I don't make it a habit but I honestly can't say that I've had a better sexual experience.
So it is complicated to say the least but I've enjoyed the fetish, I've had some great experiences, I can't say exactly why I do it or why it interests me but again, it's a big part of who I am and whether I cum or not is not the point. I would rather play for 2 hours and have an intense good time than cum in 15 minutes and have an amazing orgasm because when I cum I tend to lose interest for a while and it's much more fun to play. So when I'm looking for a play partner I value endurance over strength and I emphasis them taking control of the scene. Even when the last guy I played with didn't spend enough time in each position I had a great time because we went for an hour and he did what he wanted. For me I just want to go along for the ride.
The way you describe your scissor fetish developing is interesting. I wonder if it has something to do with specific circumstances in your own life such as an overwhelming parent or being bullied. The number of people with such fetishes is probably not known. I've been your ads on Craigslist before. That someone like you who's relatively young with a belt in bjj would go beyond the erotic fight sites me wonder if you were not having trouble finding people. My fetish is sleeperholds. I've had no success at all with Craigslist. There are a number on this site who like it, but they are not local. I wonder what other sites you might suggest beyond the obvious ones like Global, Bearhugger, Recon, etc.
That sounds about right, lol! The first time I was body scissored was from a very tall thin guy with strong legs. I could feel his bony knees digging hard into my belly and back, and when he crushed, he crushed hard. I was on my back and he was on his side. He kept crushing over and over again, and each time it felt like my guts rode up into my chest and the other half moving down to my lower belly and nether regions. It felt like he would split me in half. Each time he mercilessly scissor-crushed my belly, my guts felt like it was forced into my chest and would explosively splurt out my nipples. I'd arch my back and my chest would jut out with each powerful crush. I could have broken the hold, but dudn't want to. I looked down and saw my bare chest rhythmically heaving, and wanted the nipple explosion. What made it worse was that I could barely reach him (except his legs) but his arms were so long he kept merciessly slapping and smacking my exposed vulnerable tits and twisting my bare nipples while laughing. There was nothing I wanted to do about it. ;) It felt great! I wish I could have video taped it. As I watched my chest heaving in his powerful gut crushers, I never before knew to what extent my jugs bounced when jostled, slapped, and beaten ...and how much my tits and nipples stretched and twisted like elastic (I think he twisted each nipple 360 degrees and stretched them out about a foot, lol!) as he abused the shit out of them and me. I don't know if he ever knew how much I really enjoyed that session. I don't think my nips ever shrunk back to their previous size afterwards. I think they were permanently enlarged after that. O what a feeling! Like a full body orgasm if there is such a thing. :)
skweezhard (7 )
2017-12-16 20:07Some of us are endlessly fascinated by holds that apply a pressure and/or pain combination .... usually both together. Like others, don't know where this fascination came from, but enjoy indulging when the opportunity comes around. When I'm the receiver of a great scissor hold, I may tap and beg for release if the intensity is great, but I quickly volunteer to be put right back in the hold again! When I am the applier of an excellent scissor hold, I take great pleasure from applying pressure that makes my buddy suffer ... even when my legs are burning from working at it, the fascination of this situation drives me to continue. I agree with Chris about it not being necessary to cum when working with scissor holds. Sure I get an easy hard on. But the real satisfaction comes from just having worked on the holds for a period of time. One other thing for me is that often I find holds are not maintained for a long enough time ... many guys like to switch holds after a few minutes, but my fascination for scissors keeps my attention for hours.
Always come back for more <grin>.
InkedRican (32)
2017-12-16 21:40(Válaszképp erre)
Thumbs Up Skweezhard.
Yes, I remember your "great pleasure" when you applied it to me.
It was awesome ! Am very grateful for that/those scissor sessions.
NavelForce (0)
2017-12-16 20:32(Válaszképp erre)
How do you plus one or thumbs up a comment around here? I'll figure it out. In the meantime, here ya' go. 👍
InkedRican (32)
2017-12-15 13:20My first time feeling pressure on my head and enjoying that ringing feeling was not with a scissor. My older sister took me and my younger brother to the park in Brooklyn NY. I was about 6 I guess. The park was great, it had a giant concrete turtle I enjoyed climbing and pretending to ride. There was also a concrete tube that served as a good hiding place, or to keep dry in the rain. Sometimes some men where at the park. They were always thirsty and drinking stuff hidden in brown paper bags. My sister would leave us in the park to play alone. A few times I chatted with the old men. One of them was really cool and super friendly. He was really old probably 30 or 40 with grizzly hair on his face. It intrigued me so I asked if I could touch his face. It was rough and soft. He asked me if I wanted to fly. I told him that's impossible, only the pigeons fly. He then placed his huge hands on either side of my head, pressed his hands really hard, and then he stood-up off the bench thereby lifting me off the ground. The pressure combined with the lift did indeed feel like I was flying. I was a bit scared, and yes there was some ringing, but it was so exciting as he dangled me 3 feet off the ground while starring right at me. It was amazing. Then his drinking buddy wanted to do it too. He had even bigger hands and was taller. Boy what a ride. My little brother watched, he seemed scared, I told him not to be. This happened on more than once during our visits to the park with the same men. It was fun. A month or so later when my sister dropped us off at this park again to play with the giant concrete turtle I sought out these old men but they where not there. But I never forgot them since they gave me the gift of flight and that ringing in my head feeling.
NavelForce (0)
2017-12-15 15:31(Válaszképp erre)
Wow! Super well written. A little weird, but so well written! And by George, I think you have found a viable alternative to marijuana. :)))
InkedRican (32)
2017-12-15 23:26(Válaszképp erre)
Thanks NavelForce.
Good idea, never thought
of that, being a viable alternative
to marijuana. Practical adult application
is/are a variety of headscissors and chokes.
Yes they certainly are a great alternative /
replacement to pot if you're on the receiving
end of these holds. I don't know what would equate
the sensation of being on giving /providing end
of these wrestling holds.
NavelForce (0)
2017-12-16 06:12(Válaszképp erre)
I'm not really sure exactly what would equate the sensation either, but it definitely sounds like a high. I know one thing, though: You're a talented writer. :) That story really grabbed the emotions. I almost had a tear in my eye at the end. 👍
InkedRican (32)
2017-12-13 23:39Great Post/Share, Chris
I value play-time also.
Have plenty of endurance.
scottwrestler (4)
2017-12-13 17:06I love it! And what an interesting idea with the blood pressure kits.
ChrisWrestling (45 )
2017-12-13 00:50I had someone ask me why I like it in response to a craigslist ad. Here's my reply (this is pretty personal and an adult topic, reader discretion is advised):
That's a tough question because there isn't a large enough group of people into it so I don't think there is an understanding of it in society as there is for many other kinks.
The appeal can be similar to most BDSM activities and it covers all aspects of the acronym. Is it bondage? Clearly because you are being physically restrained. There is a dominance aspect as well, you are relinquishing control to someone else to deliver suffering. Can it be breath play? Yes, but it doesn't have to be. Do I get off like actually cum from it? Rarely unless someone is jerking me off too. I have played for over 2 hours before without ever cumming and I tend to look back on it more fondly than when I've played with someone intent on making me cum. Cumming is nice, I hear most people like it, but it isn't why I'm into it.
I can't say exactly when I got into this or how, it happened gradually. It started, I think, in Jr. High maybe High School. I used visit scissor fetish sites which no longer exist and a lot of my sexuality was formed looking at old photos from PWP, BG Enterprises, BG East, Lets Wrestle, NHB-Battle, Chris Geary's site, etc. Half the time the guys acted like they were in pain, other times like they were on the verge of orgasm. I started using, tape, rope, wood, elastic bands, anything I could find to simulate what those guys were feeling. Years later I started wrestling and doing it to others for submissions but never to torture them and never on the receiving end. I continued to get more sophisticated in how I squeezed myself, never not enjoying the experience.
I've only 3 times had someone take it to any kind of real intensity for any amount of time. Nothing in life is like it is in your head. Bondage, flogging, needle play, breath control, getting choked out, getting kicked in the head, nothing, and this isn't either. It can be intense or sensual, it can include breath play, or not. It can push your limits for pain or be mostly painless. The only thing I've found I don't like is pressure right on the solar plexus but everything else I've enjoyed regardless of pain or fear. I like the pain, I like the pressure, I like the panic when you can't breathe, I like when my legs go numb or I get swimmy in the head. One time I used 2 bp cuffs chained together around my stomach and pumped them up to about 220mmhg and then used a gi belt to choke myself most of the way out and the feeling coming back came in waves as did my awareness of the pressure and it was the single most amazing feeling of my life. I don't make it a habit but I honestly can't say that I've had a better sexual experience.
So it is complicated to say the least but I've enjoyed the fetish, I've had some great experiences, I can't say exactly why I do it or why it interests me but again, it's a big part of who I am and whether I cum or not is not the point. I would rather play for 2 hours and have an intense good time than cum in 15 minutes and have an amazing orgasm because when I cum I tend to lose interest for a while and it's much more fun to play. So when I'm looking for a play partner I value endurance over strength and I emphasis them taking control of the scene. Even when the last guy I played with didn't spend enough time in each position I had a great time because we went for an hour and he did what he wanted. For me I just want to go along for the ride.
jwest1111 (0)
2017-12-17 15:24(Válaszképp erre)
The way you describe your scissor fetish developing is interesting. I wonder if it has something to do with specific circumstances in your own life such as an overwhelming parent or being bullied. The number of people with such fetishes is probably not known. I've been your ads on Craigslist before. That someone like you who's relatively young with a belt in bjj would go beyond the erotic fight sites me wonder if you were not having trouble finding people. My fetish is sleeperholds. I've had no success at all with Craigslist. There are a number on this site who like it, but they are not local. I wonder what other sites you might suggest beyond the obvious ones like Global, Bearhugger, Recon, etc.
NavelForce (0)
2017-12-14 09:27(Válaszképp erre)
That sounds about right, lol! The first time I was body scissored was from a very tall thin guy with strong legs. I could feel his bony knees digging hard into my belly and back, and when he crushed, he crushed hard. I was on my back and he was on his side. He kept crushing over and over again, and each time it felt like my guts rode up into my chest and the other half moving down to my lower belly and nether regions. It felt like he would split me in half. Each time he mercilessly scissor-crushed my belly, my guts felt like it was forced into my chest and would explosively splurt out my nipples. I'd arch my back and my chest would jut out with each powerful crush. I could have broken the hold, but dudn't want to. I looked down and saw my bare chest rhythmically heaving, and wanted the nipple explosion. What made it worse was that I could barely reach him (except his legs) but his arms were so long he kept merciessly slapping and smacking my exposed vulnerable tits and twisting my bare nipples while laughing. There was nothing I wanted to do about it. ;) It felt great! I wish I could have video taped it. As I watched my chest heaving in his powerful gut crushers, I never before knew to what extent my jugs bounced when jostled, slapped, and beaten ...and how much my tits and nipples stretched and twisted like elastic (I think he twisted each nipple 360 degrees and stretched them out about a foot, lol!) as he abused the shit out of them and me. I don't know if he ever knew how much I really enjoyed that session. I don't think my nips ever shrunk back to their previous size afterwards. I think they were permanently enlarged after that. O what a feeling! Like a full body orgasm if there is such a thing. :)